Speaking your mind is not virtuous; self-control is.
We've all met someone, or some of us have been at times (me!✋) people who simply say whatever they think. Often we consider that virtuous. Honesty is a virtue. But you know what else is? Self-Control.
We live in an age where everyone has a platform to speak their mind. Unfortunately, it usually behind a keyboard where accountability is minimal. So we have a lot of unrestrained individuals blasting whatever they think at the moment. The problem is that often it's a thought that has not been processed or scrutinized.
We all have said things we regret because they were a thought, not because they were THOUGHTFUL.
If scripture is your standard (Yes, brother and sister, you can't have the Christian standard without the scriptures), then there is a model for you to follow regarding your speech.
We all have said things we regret because they were a thought, not because they were THOUGHTFUL.
Proverbs 29:11 A Fool speaks his whole mind.
Proverbs 13:3 Whoever guards his mouth preserves his life; he who opens wide his lips comes to ruin.
James 1:19 Know this, my beloved brothers: let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak.
James 1:26 If anyone thinks he is religious and does not bridle his tongue but deceives his heart, this person's religion is worthless.
